Monday, March 30, 2015

Creative Habits Are Good For the Brain

After listening to a podcast about maintaining creative habit yesterday, I felt inspired! 

The podcast: Elise Gets Crafty.
The particular episode: Episode #39 where Elise interviewed Crystal Moody.
Elise and Crystal chatted about Crystal's 2014 year-long project of drawing something different every day. It's definitely worth a listen if you,too are needing a little inspiration regarding any creative habit.

I can't draw.  I don't even doodle.  But I always wish I could.  But that whole thing about saying "I can't draw" actually just means, "I don't draw".  I don't make many attempts.  I don't make it a practice.  So I'm not much better than I was at about the age of 10.  I never developed the skill, because skill takes practice.

I'm not saying I'm down for doing a drawing every day for a solid year like Crystal did, but I would like to attempt to draw at least a couple of days out of the week.  Even if it's just for 5 minutes!

This weekend was perfect Spring weather, and I decided to get out my dusty old sketch book, (which I've had for about 7 years and have only drawn on 5 pages so far) and draw something outside.

I drew a very quick sketch of our chiminea.  After I drew it, I thought, "I really drew that crooked."  But you know what? It sort of IS crooked in real life.  I didn't even notice that until I drew it.   
crooked chiminea in still life


crooked chiminea in real life


It took less than 10 minutes, so I did a second sketch-- My feet!
My feet/ My feet
So there it is.
Day 1 of my sketching practice. It was pretty relaxing, and almost meditative.  I thought of nothing else while I had my little pencils in hand.  That's got to be good for the brain, right? 


Sunday, March 29, 2015

10 years ago

(If you just substitute "7 years ago today" with "10 years ago today", the post below, that I wrote in 2012, is still completely accurate.)

Mom

7 years ago today.

How can that be?

I remember when Mom died, I worried that I'd forget the sound of her voice over time.  Or get unfamilar with her face.  I thought over time, memories of her would fade.

But I can close my eyes and see her.  I still, exactly, know her face.

And not only can I still hear the sound of her voice, I so often know exactly what she'd say to me about certain things.  I can almost have conversations with her!

And funny little memories, and lots of sweet ones, of her pop up on me all the time.

I remember one of the last things Mom said to me.
She sighed and said, "I should have had you earlier."  Well, I knew what she meant by that.  She meant we should have had more time together.  And we should have. But rather than having me earlier, I just wish she had lived to be a very old little lady.  I know she had me at just the right time.   

Mom gave me a great childhood.  And ultimately, a great life.

I have so many vivid memories- old ones, and more recent ones- of her.
So yes, 7 years.  But the memories haven not faded.

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

The KonMari Method Continued

I wrote a couple of posts about the Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo on previous posts here and here.  Marie's tidying method is known as The KonMari Method. In a nutshell, if something doesn't spark joy within you, get rid of it.

Cleaning out my closet (well, technically, 2 closets, a chest of drawers, plus out of season stuff stored under my bed) took me a solid day and a half and was pretty draining.  But it also felt great to say goodbye to stuff I never really pay attention to anymore anyway, and then drop off about 5 big garbage bags full of clothes to the local Goodwill. Win/Win!

Marie Kondo suggests that after you finish tidying your clothes, you move on to books.  According to her research, she says books are one of the 3 things people find the hardest to let go.

If you know me at all, read this blog, or follow me on Instagram, you know I'm an avid book reader, and a big fan of my local library.  I get most of the books I read from the library.  Occasionally I download a book not available thru the library for my Kindle. Only rarely do I buy a physical copy of a book.  So I figured I didn't have that many books to even contemplate keeping or not.

As with all categories for tidying using the KonMari Method, I gathered all the books in my house into one central location for my purge- cookbooks from the kitchen, books on the bookshelf in our office, in my studio, and a few in random spots around the house were all included.  Sure enough, I had more books than I realized.  I think that's the importance of laying everything out in once central space: You see just how much you possess.  It's usually a surprising amount.  I think it's always more than you think. 
My collection of books (pre-purge)- Small compared to most, I'm sure.
Just like with clothing, you're suppose to look at each and every book asking yourself, "Does this spark joy?"  Marie's overall thoughts about books you might eventually read, or the ones you might read again: If you haven't read it yet, you probably won't.  And years down the road, if you do decide to, just buy another copy. (Or get it from the library!)  If you've already read it, liked it and think you might just read it again?  More than likely, you won't.  Most books don't get a second reading from the same person. Pass those along to a friends or book-loving strangers!

I ended up getting rid of tons of songbooks.  I've memorized the songs in them that I want to play, at this point.  If not, it's easy to find music online these days- for free.  I also got rid of paperbacks that didn't hold meaning for me- some I had read, some not.  I got rid of all but my favorite cookbooks.  You can find so many free recipes online these days, I decided I just don't need all those cookbooks anymore. I did however, hold on to some books because they are very special to me- Some childhood books, and some very meaningful novels that I loved so much, just having them take up space on my bookshelf truly does spark joy!

I wound up with several bags and boxes of books to sell at Half Priced Books.  I wound up with about $60 I didn't have before, and now, those books can find their way to someone who will read them with fresh eyes.  Books are meant to be read.  That's when books feel happiest!
Thanks to the KonMari Method, these books can continue to fulfill their destiny and find someone to read them!

Monday, March 23, 2015

Music Monday "When I'm 64" by The Beatles

Happy Monday!

This past Friday night, we went to our friend's birthday party-- and not just ANY birthday:  Her 64th.  So, of course, it was Beatle-themed. 
"When I'm 64" birthday cake
I'm sure when Paul came up with the lyrics for this song, 64 seemed like a ripe old age.  But to see Joyce, her husband and friends (many who I suspect are around the same age) at her birthday party the other night, 64 is clearly just a number that sang well and doesn't represent old age at all.  As you can see, Joyce is still a lovely Spring chicken!
Joyce and her husband, Reed- who still need and feed each other!
So, with no further ado, here's "When I'm 64" by The Beatles, of course!

Friday, March 20, 2015

I'm All About the Podcasts!

Ever since a my friend told me about Serial (which, like everyone else, I got immediately hooked on), I've been diving into the world of podcasts. And it's a big, wide, beautiful world.
podcast icon, on an apple phone
I use to listen to music when I ran (or walked or lifted weights).  Then I started listening to audio books.  They had to be non-fiction or I just couldn't follow along for some reason.  Then, as mentioned, Serial fell into my life.  And now, it's all podcasts, all the time!

I love podcasts for so many reasons.  The top ones being:
  1. You can find good podcasts on just about any subject your interested in.  Go ahead, and check it out right now.  Go to the purple mic icon (if you have an iphone, which is all I know), and use the search tool to find podcasts about anything and everything.  See?!  
  2. They're portable.  Unlike a video, or a blog, you can listen to podcasts while running, walking, working out, gardening, commuting... If you've got a little time to fill, there's a podcast to fill it with it!
  3. They tend to be 30 minutes to an hour in length, per podcast.  It's not a huge, ongoing committment the way some audio books are.  Some of those audio books I listened to in my pre-podcast days were 12 CDs long.  I had to load them on my computer, and then listen. And listen. And listen.  Sometimes, it tooks weeks to hear a whole book.  That's a heavy load for a brain like mine. ;)   Sometimes, shorter is better.  I can listen to an entire podcast (sometimes 2) in the course of my daily workouts.
  4. They're FREE!  All the podcasts I listen to are free.  With the exception of the "premium package" I upgraded to for the Marc Maron WTF podcast...because he's just so awesome, I wanted to pay and have 500 episodes to chose from, because 50 just wasn't enough.  

WTF's Marc Maron
Right now, my number 1 favorite podcast is the one I mentioned above- WTF with Marc Maron. Marc's a stand up comic that I didn't know of because I don't know much about the stand up world.  He interviews a new guest each week.  But rather than feeling like your listening to an interview, it feels like you're eavesdropping on great conversation between two (usually) funny people.  He interviews lots of comics (well-knowns, and not-so-well-knowns), but also musicians, actors, film makers.  I love Marc, and now feel like I know him. 

So if you're not a podcast listener yet, you might want to check into them.  It's a big, wide, beautiful world out there.  And there's something for everyone.